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In 2007, I went to a tiny hill town in Tuscany that I found by taking a wrong turn off the highway with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was nineteen years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Beef Pho for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

I need to tell you about the summer of 1993, not because it was the best summer of my life (it wasn't; it was actually quite difficult in ways I won't get into here) but because it was the summer I ate Chicken Biryani for the first time, and that matters more than I would have predicted. I was nineteen, staying with my coworker Priya for three weeks while my family dealt with some logistics that didn't involve me. Coworker Priya lived in an apartment with a kitchen the size of a generous closet, and a landlord who had specifically prohibited cooking smells in the lease, a clause that my coworker Priya violated every single day with absolutely no remorse. It was there, in that kitchen that smelled like garlic and old wood and the particular mustiness of a building that had been standing since before anyone currently living in it was born, that I had my first encounter with this dish. I didn't even know what it was. I sat down, a plate appeared in front of me, I took a bite, and something shifted. Not dramatically. Not with trumpets. More like a very quiet click, the way a door opens when you finally find the right key.

The thing about Lamb Tagine is that it shouldn't work as well as it does. I've thought about this a lot, probably too much if I'm being honest, which I am being, because this is a food blog and honesty about food is the only kind that matters. The first time I encountered it, I was genuinely skeptical. I was nine, at Grandma Rose's house for late fall in 1991, and I was the kind of nine-year-old who had very strong opinions about what I would and wouldn't eat, most of which were wrong. I sat down at the table with the specific energy of someone who has already decided they won't like something, which is the worst possible way to sit down at any table, and especially at Grandma Rose's table, where the food was always trying to teach you something about being wrong. I looked at the plate. I looked at Grandma Rose. She looked back at me with an expression that said, very clearly, that she had made this dish for forty years and was not concerned about the opinions of someone who had existed for nine of them.

In 1987, I went to a grandmother's apartment in Kyoto that had somehow become a restaurant with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was eleven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Pad Thai for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

In 1999, I went to a night market in Chiang Mai at two in the morning with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was twenty-two years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Ethiopian Injera with Doro Wat for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

There is a very specific kind of madness that takes over a person when they believe they have discovered the best version of something. I first experienced this madness in 2001, when I was thirteen years old and my great-aunt made Japanese Curry for the first time in my presence. I was sitting at her kitchen table, which was the kind of table that had lived through forty years of family dinners and looked it. Crayon marks under the edge, a water ring that had been there since before I was born, one leg that wobbled unless you put a folded paper towel under it. I remember the smell before I remember anything else. It hit me the moment I walked through the door: something rich and deep and complicated, the kind of smell that rearranges your understanding of what food can be. I stood in the doorway for a moment, probably with my mouth open, while Great-Aunt Vera moved around the kitchen with the practiced efficiency of someone who had made this dish so many times that her hands knew what to do without being asked. She didn't look at the stove. She didn't look at a recipe. She was telling me something about school while her hands worked, completely independently, like a separate organism that happened to share her body.

I need to tell you about the summer of 2003, not because it was the best summer of my life (it wasn't; it was actually quite difficult in ways I won't get into here) but because it was the summer I ate Jerk Chicken for the first time, and that matters more than I would have predicted. I was eleven, staying with my college roommate Darius for three weeks while my family dealt with some logistics that didn't involve me. College roommate Darius lived in an apartment with a kitchen the size of a generous closet, and a landlord who had specifically prohibited cooking smells in the lease, a clause that my college roommate Darius violated every single day with absolutely no remorse. It was there, in that kitchen that smelled like garlic and old wood and the particular mustiness of a building that had been standing since before anyone currently living in it was born, that I had my first encounter with this dish. I didn't even know what it was. I sat down, a plate appeared in front of me, I took a bite, and something shifted. Not dramatically. Not with trumpets. More like a very quiet click, the way a door opens when you finally find the right key.

The hottest August on record in 2013 was the kind of record that gets remembered. Not because anything particularly historic happened (nothing did, or at least nothing I was involved in) but because the light was a specific quality and the air had a particular smell and I was seven years old, which is an age when everything gets encoded more vividly than it will ever be again. I remember that the hottest August on record with the kind of detail that I can no longer apply to things that happened last Tuesday. I remember the temperature of the air. I remember what songs were playing on the radio. And I remember, with absolute crystalline precision, the first time I tasted Peruvian Lomo Saltado, at a table in Great-Aunt Vera's house, with the specific afternoon light coming through the window at an angle that made everything look slightly cinematic. Memory is strange. It keeps the things you don't expect it to keep and loses the things you most needed to hold onto. It kept this.

I need to tell you about the summer of 2003, not because it was the best summer of my life (it wasn't; it was actually quite difficult in ways I won't get into here) but because it was the summer I ate Turkish Manti for the first time, and that matters more than I would have predicted. I was eleven, staying with my ex-girlfriend Simone for three weeks while my family dealt with some logistics that didn't involve me. Ex-girlfriend Simone lived in an apartment with a kitchen the size of a generous closet, and a landlord who had specifically prohibited cooking smells in the lease, a clause that my ex-girlfriend Simone violated every single day with absolutely no remorse. It was there, in that kitchen that smelled like garlic and old wood and the particular mustiness of a building that had been standing since before anyone currently living in it was born, that I had my first encounter with this dish. I didn't even know what it was. I sat down, a plate appeared in front of me, I took a bite, and something shifted. Not dramatically. Not with trumpets. More like a very quiet click, the way a door opens when you finally find the right key.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Greek Spanakopita. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 1999, when I was twenty-two, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

The thing about Moroccan Bastilla is that it shouldn't work as well as it does. I've thought about this a lot, probably too much if I'm being honest, which I am being, because this is a food blog and honesty about food is the only kind that matters. The first time I encountered it, I was genuinely skeptical. I was nineteen, at Aunt Marlene's house for the hottest August on record in 2001, and I was the kind of nineteen-year-old who had very strong opinions about what I would and wouldn't eat, most of which were wrong. I sat down at the table with the specific energy of someone who has already decided they won't like something, which is the worst possible way to sit down at any table, and especially at Aunt Marlene's table, where the food was always trying to teach you something about being wrong. I looked at the plate. I looked at Aunt Marlene. She looked back at me with an expression that said, very clearly, that she had made this dish for forty years and was not concerned about the opinions of someone who had existed for nineteen of them.

Early spring in 1996 was the kind of spring that gets remembered. Not because anything particularly historic happened (nothing did, or at least nothing I was involved in) but because the light was a specific quality and the air had a particular smell and I was sixteen years old, which is an age when everything gets encoded more vividly than it will ever be again. I remember that early spring with the kind of detail that I can no longer apply to things that happened last Tuesday. I remember the temperature of the air. I remember what songs were playing on the radio. And I remember, with absolute crystalline precision, the first time I tasted Israeli Shakshuka, at a table in my sister Dana's house, with the specific afternoon light coming through the window at an angle that made everything look slightly cinematic. Memory is strange. It keeps the things you don't expect it to keep and loses the things you most needed to hold onto. It kept this.

There is a very specific kind of madness that takes over a person when they believe they have discovered the best version of something. I first experienced this madness in 2009, when I was sixteen years old and my mother made Lebanese Kibbeh for the first time in my presence. I was sitting at her kitchen table, which was the kind of table that had lived through forty years of family dinners and looked it. Crayon marks under the edge, a water ring that had been there since before I was born, one leg that wobbled unless you put a folded paper towel under it. I remember the smell before I remember anything else. It hit me the moment I walked through the door: something rich and deep and complicated, the kind of smell that rearranges your understanding of what food can be. I stood in the doorway for a moment, probably with my mouth open, while my mother moved around the kitchen with the practiced efficiency of someone who had made this dish so many times that her hands knew what to do without being asked. She didn't look at the stove. She didn't look at a recipe. She was telling me something about school while her hands worked, completely independently, like a separate organism that happened to share her body.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Brazilian Feijoada. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 1987, when I was sixteen, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

In 2007, I went to a market stall in Marrakech that also sold phone cases and bootleg DVDs with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was thirteen years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Argentine Empanadas for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Cuban Ropa Vieja. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 1987, when I was sixteen, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

I need to tell you about the summer of 1993, not because it was the best summer of my life (it wasn't; it was actually quite difficult in ways I won't get into here) but because it was the summer I ate Jamaican Oxtail Stew for the first time, and that matters more than I would have predicted. I was thirteen, staying with my ex-girlfriend Simone for three weeks while my family dealt with some logistics that didn't involve me. Ex-girlfriend Simone lived in an apartment with a kitchen the size of a generous closet, and a landlord who had specifically prohibited cooking smells in the lease, a clause that my ex-girlfriend Simone violated every single day with absolutely no remorse. It was there, in that kitchen that smelled like garlic and old wood and the particular mustiness of a building that had been standing since before anyone currently living in it was born, that I had my first encounter with this dish. I didn't even know what it was. I sat down, a plate appeared in front of me, I took a bite, and something shifted. Not dramatically. Not with trumpets. More like a very quiet click, the way a door opens when you finally find the right key.

There is a very specific kind of madness that takes over a person when they believe they have discovered the best version of something. I first experienced this madness in 1991, when I was twenty-two years old and my mother made West African Groundnut Soup for the first time in my presence. I was sitting at her kitchen table, which was the kind of table that had lived through forty years of family dinners and looked it. Crayon marks under the edge, a water ring that had been there since before I was born, one leg that wobbled unless you put a folded paper towel under it. I remember the smell before I remember anything else. It hit me the moment I walked through the door: something rich and deep and complicated, the kind of smell that rearranges your understanding of what food can be. I stood in the doorway for a moment, probably with my mouth open, while my mother moved around the kitchen with the practiced efficiency of someone who had made this dish so many times that her hands knew what to do without being asked. She didn't look at the stove. She didn't look at a recipe. She was telling me something about school while her hands worked, completely independently, like a separate organism that happened to share her body.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Nigerian Jollof Rice. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 1999, when I was nine, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Ghanaian Kelewele. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 1987, when I was sixteen, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

In 1987, I went to a floating restaurant in Bangkok that rocked every time a boat went by with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was eleven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Senegalese Thieboudienne for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

In 2007, I went to a small fishing village on the coast of Portugal with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was seven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Tunisian Brik for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

My older sister never wrote anything down. I want to be clear about this upfront, because it is the central tragedy of this entire essay and I think you deserve to know that before we get emotionally invested. my sister Dana cooked the way some people drive: entirely from feel, with no regard for written instructions, occasionally terrifying, but somehow always arriving at the destination intact. Egyptian Koshari was her signature. Not in the way people sometimes use that word, not just "a dish she made," but truly, fundamentally, the thing that most people who knew her thought of when they thought of her cooking. At every birthday, every holiday, every Sunday dinner that mattered, there it was. The smell of it walking into her house was so synonymous with safety and comfort that I once, at the age of fifteen, started crying at a restaurant when I smelled something similar coming from the kitchen, because for a moment my brain genuinely thought she was there. She was not there. It was a chain restaurant in a strip mall. I tipped very well and did not explain.

There is a very specific kind of madness that takes over a person when they believe they have discovered the best version of something. I first experienced this madness in 2009, when I was twenty-four years old and my grandmother made Persian Ghormeh Sabzi for the first time in my presence. I was sitting at her kitchen table, which was the kind of table that had lived through forty years of family dinners and looked it. Crayon marks under the edge, a water ring that had been there since before I was born, one leg that wobbled unless you put a folded paper towel under it. I remember the smell before I remember anything else. It hit me the moment I walked through the door: something rich and deep and complicated, the kind of smell that rearranges your understanding of what food can be. I stood in the doorway for a moment, probably with my mouth open, while Grandma Rose moved around the kitchen with the practiced efficiency of someone who had made this dish so many times that her hands knew what to do without being asked. She didn't look at the stove. She didn't look at a recipe. She was telling me something about school while her hands worked, completely independently, like a separate organism that happened to share her body.

Late fall in 2005 was the kind of fall that gets remembered. Not because anything particularly historic happened (nothing did, or at least nothing I was involved in) but because the light was a specific quality and the air had a particular smell and I was nine years old, which is an age when everything gets encoded more vividly than it will ever be again. I remember that late fall with the kind of detail that I can no longer apply to things that happened last Tuesday. I remember the temperature of the air. I remember what songs were playing on the radio. And I remember, with absolute crystalline precision, the first time I tasted Afghan Mantu, at a table in Grandma Rose's house, with the specific afternoon light coming through the window at an angle that made everything look slightly cinematic. Memory is strange. It keeps the things you don't expect it to keep and loses the things you most needed to hold onto. It kept this.

I need to tell you about the summer of 2011, not because it was the best summer of my life (it wasn't; it was actually quite difficult in ways I won't get into here) but because it was the summer I ate Pakistani Nihari for the first time, and that matters more than I would have predicted. I was twenty-two, staying with my coworker Priya for three weeks while my family dealt with some logistics that didn't involve me. Coworker Priya lived in an apartment with a kitchen the size of a generous closet, and a landlord who had specifically prohibited cooking smells in the lease, a clause that my coworker Priya violated every single day with absolutely no remorse. It was there, in that kitchen that smelled like garlic and old wood and the particular mustiness of a building that had been standing since before anyone currently living in it was born, that I had my first encounter with this dish. I didn't even know what it was. I sat down, a plate appeared in front of me, I took a bite, and something shifted. Not dramatically. Not with trumpets. More like a very quiet click, the way a door opens when you finally find the right key.

In 2007, I went to a small fishing village on the coast of Portugal with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was nineteen years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Sri Lankan Kottu for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

I've been trying to write this recipe down for eleven years. Not continuously; I have not spent eleven years exclusively on this task. But it has been a recurring project, something I pick up and put down and pick up again, like a book I keep meaning to finish. The problem is that Malaysian Laksa doesn't behave the way a recipe is supposed to behave. It doesn't have quantities. It has intuitions. I watched my friend Rodrigo make it in 2003, in a kitchen that was warmer than any kitchen should legally be, with no measuring cups in sight, explaining each step in a tone that suggested the steps were obvious to anyone who had thought about it for more than thirty seconds. I was taking notes in a small notebook. The notes, which I still have somewhere, say things like "some of the thing" and "until it looks right" and, memorably, "you'll know." Reader, I did not know. I still don't know. But I can tell you exactly what it tasted like, down to the temperature and the way it felt on the back of my throat, and maybe that's what I've actually been trying to document all along.

In 2007, I went to a hole-in-the-wall place in the Mission District in San Francisco with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was seven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Indonesian Rendang for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Filipino Kare-Kare. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 2007, when I was seven, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

In 2007, I went to a hole-in-the-wall place in the Mission District in San Francisco with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was seven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Korean Sundubu Jjigae for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

There is a very specific kind of madness that takes over a person when they believe they have discovered the best version of something. I first experienced this madness in 2009, when I was sixteen years old and my older sister made Japanese Tonkotsu Ramen for the first time in my presence. I was sitting at her kitchen table, which was the kind of table that had lived through forty years of family dinners and looked it. Crayon marks under the edge, a water ring that had been there since before I was born, one leg that wobbled unless you put a folded paper towel under it. I remember the smell before I remember anything else. It hit me the moment I walked through the door: something rich and deep and complicated, the kind of smell that rearranges your understanding of what food can be. I stood in the doorway for a moment, probably with my mouth open, while my sister Dana moved around the kitchen with the practiced efficiency of someone who had made this dish so many times that her hands knew what to do without being asked. She didn't look at the stove. She didn't look at a recipe. She was telling me something about school while her hands worked, completely independently, like a separate organism that happened to share her body.

Some people have a dish that makes them feel like a child again. Not in the bad way, not in the way that means helpless or small, but in the good way: safe, held, temporarily released from the ordinary terror of being an adult with responsibilities and a body that is slowly betraying you in new and creative ways. For me, that dish is Taiwanese Beef Noodle Soup. I didn't know this for a long time. You rarely know these things until you encounter the dish unexpectedly, in a context where you weren't braced for it, and then it hits you all at once: the memory, the feeling, the particular texture of a moment from years ago. This happened to me at a dinner party in 2007, when I was seven, when the host brought out a dish I hadn't seen since I was a child and I had to excuse myself for a moment because my eyes were doing something embarrassing. The host was very gracious about it. She said nothing. She refilled my glass. She is a good person.

In 2007, I went to a small fishing village on the coast of Portugal with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was nineteen years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Vietnamese Bun Bo Hue for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.

The thing about Cambodian Amok is that it shouldn't work as well as it does. I've thought about this a lot, probably too much if I'm being honest, which I am being, because this is a food blog and honesty about food is the only kind that matters. The first time I encountered it, I was genuinely skeptical. I was nineteen, at my mother's house for the hottest August on record in 2001, and I was the kind of nineteen-year-old who had very strong opinions about what I would and wouldn't eat, most of which were wrong. I sat down at the table with the specific energy of someone who has already decided they won't like something, which is the worst possible way to sit down at any table, and especially at my mother's table, where the food was always trying to teach you something about being wrong. I looked at the plate. I looked at my mother. She looked back at me with an expression that said, very clearly, that she had made this dish for forty years and was not concerned about the opinions of someone who had existed for nineteen of them.

The thing about Burmese Mohinga is that it shouldn't work as well as it does. I've thought about this a lot, probably too much if I'm being honest, which I am being, because this is a food blog and honesty about food is the only kind that matters. The first time I encountered it, I was genuinely skeptical. I was twenty-two, at Grandma Rose's house for late fall in 1991, and I was the kind of twenty-two-year-old who had very strong opinions about what I would and wouldn't eat, most of which were wrong. I sat down at the table with the specific energy of someone who has already decided they won't like something, which is the worst possible way to sit down at any table, and especially at Grandma Rose's table, where the food was always trying to teach you something about being wrong. I looked at the plate. I looked at Grandma Rose. She looked back at me with an expression that said, very clearly, that she had made this dish for forty years and was not concerned about the opinions of someone who had existed for twenty-two of them.

I've been trying to write this recipe down for eleven years. Not continuously; I have not spent eleven years exclusively on this task. But it has been a recurring project, something I pick up and put down and pick up again, like a book I keep meaning to finish. The problem is that Tibetan Tsampa doesn't behave the way a recipe is supposed to behave. It doesn't have quantities. It has intuitions. I watched my coworker Priya make it in 2003, in a kitchen that was warmer than any kitchen should legally be, with no measuring cups in sight, explaining each step in a tone that suggested the steps were obvious to anyone who had thought about it for more than thirty seconds. I was taking notes in a small notebook. The notes, which I still have somewhere, say things like "some of the thing" and "until it looks right" and, memorably, "you'll know." Reader, I did not know. I still don't know. But I can tell you exactly what it tasted like, down to the temperature and the way it felt on the back of my throat, and maybe that's what I've actually been trying to document all along.

The thing about Nepalese Dal Bhat is that it shouldn't work as well as it does. I've thought about this a lot, probably too much if I'm being honest, which I am being, because this is a food blog and honesty about food is the only kind that matters. The first time I encountered it, I was genuinely skeptical. I was fifteen, at Great-Aunt Vera's house for late fall in 1991, and I was the kind of fifteen-year-old who had very strong opinions about what I would and wouldn't eat, most of which were wrong. I sat down at the table with the specific energy of someone who has already decided they won't like something, which is the worst possible way to sit down at any table, and especially at Great-Aunt Vera's table, where the food was always trying to teach you something about being wrong. I looked at the plate. I looked at Great-Aunt Vera. She looked back at me with an expression that said, very clearly, that she had made this dish for forty years and was not concerned about the opinions of someone who had existed for fifteen of them.

Early spring in 1996 was the kind of spring that gets remembered. Not because anything particularly historic happened (nothing did, or at least nothing I was involved in) but because the light was a specific quality and the air had a particular smell and I was eleven years old, which is an age when everything gets encoded more vividly than it will ever be again. I remember that early spring with the kind of detail that I can no longer apply to things that happened last Tuesday. I remember the temperature of the air. I remember what songs were playing on the radio. And I remember, with absolute crystalline precision, the first time I tasted Bhutanese Ema Datshi, at a table in Great-Aunt Vera's house, with the specific afternoon light coming through the window at an angle that made everything look slightly cinematic. Memory is strange. It keeps the things you don't expect it to keep and loses the things you most needed to hold onto. It kept this.

In 1987, I went to a grandmother's apartment in Kyoto that had somehow become a restaurant with what I can only describe as an extremely optimistic attitude and a carry-on bag that was slightly too large for the overhead bin. I was eleven years old and under the impression that traveling alone would be romantic and character-building. It was sometimes those things. It was also frequently confusing, occasionally frightening, and once involved a misunderstanding about bus schedules that I will never fully recover from. But on the third day (or possibly the fourth; I had lost track of time in the pleasant way that happens when you have no meetings and no reason to know what day it is) I found myself sitting in front of Maldivian Mas Huni for the first time. I had not ordered it on purpose. I had pointed at a menu without fully understanding what I was pointing at, which is a strategy I recommend with reservations. The dish that arrived was not what I expected. I didn't know what I expected. Whatever it was, this was better.